Self Awareness...

Assalamualaikum n greetings...

Overweight people don't know how much they're eating.

Broke people don't know how much they're spending.

Single people don't know why they're turning people off.

Notice a trend? Lack of self awareness is deadly.

-kalebfirkins-

Self awareness...I've read a tweet post as per above and a lot of things came to my mind...most people including me think we are right all the times..there is nothing wrong with us..and when other peoples view things differently..they are the one who are at fault..who are wrong..orang melayu cakap tak sedar diri..hahaha..well..myself included of course

And with my current situation..I can't stop myself from thinking..am I the one at fault? ermm..maybe not totally at faults..but being an imperfection human beings..there might be a thing or two that I have done or implied that resulted in what happening now..but..am I ready to change?..hmmm..I also dunno..hanging..no answer that I am willing to give..change for a better self?..change for a better life? and change for a better relationship?..it is not easy

Furthermore..without self awareness and always think that we are right..we tend to get mad easily, cause everyone else are always at fault..he's wrong..she's wrong..they are wrong..thinking that we are better than everyone else built up the anger..why they did this and not that..you should have done this..you should have done that..the blame game never stop..

And in relationship..this will be the killing point..who's right? who's wrong? blame game and no communication will put a stop..real communication..serious talk from heart to heart will no longer exist if none would try..

Well..there are always chances available..but do I ready for that..will I grab it? or will I stay like this...I have no answer just yet..I am not ready to put the blame on me..I am not ready to change..I am not ready of anything...

Till I have the answer..adios...

'walk on with hope in your heart and you'll never walk alone...'