Hi world..hahaha..suddenly remember that i had a blog..kesian dia kan..berzaman ditinggalkan..berkulat dan bersawang sudah..ishhh3..and looking back at the last post..it was more than a year ago..when i was still single..hahahaha..getting ready to be married..huhu..and everything has successfully ended..the party..the celebration..the waiting..the gathering..the ceremony..everything is done..though not perfect..it was a blessing..and i feel blessed..having a very understanding and caring husband by my side..very nice mother in law, a cool father in law and few dramatic siblings..hehehe..i feel good..though i was a bit slow opening up to them..but they do welcome me graciously..and time does play it games..and i guess living in the same state help me a lot..the frequent visits and finally living with them..well..i manage to survive..hahahaha
My dear friend do ask me sometimes..how it feels like to have new family and living with them..how's my marriage life..do i feel good about it..well..honestly..every marriage life do have it ups and down..it's all depend on us..how we think and how we react..at all comes back to our 'niat' of getting married in the first place..so many things can happen..you may get a very dramatic in laws..mine?..sometimes..hahaha..but still can manage..knowing something of your husband..that you never knew of..the stage before the wedding day would always be the acting stage..where you try to be the nicest to your partner..and when only he has become yours..the true colors will shine..that is why..accepting your other half completely will define your marriage..though it doesn't means that you have to accept everything he throws over to you..confused??..hehe..
As i said earlier..everything depends on your 'niat'.. what are you getting married for..if you still confused..than bear in mind..your marriage is your 'ibadah'..so 'niat kerana Allah SWT'..in sha Allah..your journey will be ease..though you can see nowadays that people married for various reason..and thus..everything easily comes to an end..
Hmmm..dunno what i am rambling about again..hahahah..as always..read with a cheerful brain and smiling heart..and you'll get what i mean..if you still cannot get it..read again..while following my lead..take a veryyyy deep breath..hold..hold..hold............................................and....let it go..let it go..can't hold it back anymore..let it go..let it go..turn away and slam the door...erkkk..noooooo..... ^_^
Ok laaa...that's all for today..kalau rajin..than continue again someday..hehe
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